{"id":137829,"date":"2026-06-12T12:47:41","date_gmt":"2026-06-12T10:47:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sabinewalter.group\/?p=137829"},"modified":"2026-06-12T12:47:42","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T10:47:42","slug":"stuck-in-a-rut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sabinewalter.group\/en\/festgefahren-im-leben\/","title":{"rendered":"Stuck in life? 4 guiding questions that will bring you change"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"gb-text content-area\">Do you know that feeling? Everything\u2019s actually fine. You\u2019re in good health. Work\u2019s going as usual. You\u2019re quite successful, and you\u2019re making enough money. There are no major worries \u2013 and yet, right now, your life just doesn\u2019t feel quite right. You can\u2019t quite put your finger on why yet. But deep down, there\u2019s a longing for change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">If this resonates with you and you\u2019d like to explore this longing, please feel free to use the following four guiding questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-element-8584b0ee\">\n<div class=\"gb-text gb-text-e1258ca2\">The essence<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-element-ba2f099b\">\n<h2 class=\"gb-text big gb-text-3d6794d5\">4 key questions for greater authenticity in your life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"gb-element-6f31ae74\">\n<li class=\"gb-text-116bdc13\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Layer_2\" data-name=\"Layer 2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 29.74 46.75\">\n  <g id=\"Ebene_1\" data-name=\"Ebene 1\">\n    <g>\n      <path 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d=\"M18.61,14.94c-.56-1.45,2.1-.97,2.83-.77,3.42.9,6.31,3.42,7.65,6.75,1.46,3.4.3,7.46-1.98,10.21-3.58,4.73-9.39,7.22-15.13,7.95-3.42.5-6.89.47-10.33.27-.63-.1-.81.33-.37.67,3.52,3.3,8.33,5.58,13.08,5.25.94-.03,2.27-.34,3.19-.58,0,0,1.52-.58,1.52-.58,14.52-6,5.45-20.05-.45-29.16h0ZM18.75,14.86c4.54,7.34,13.45,16.23,8.08,25.34-4.21,5.92-12.81,8.26-19.37,5.19-2.66-1.21-5.27-3-7.08-5.28-.43-.94.53-1.7,1.33-1.47,1.14.13,2.27.22,3.41.26,6.7.38,13.84-1.34,18.68-6.18,3.04-2.9,5.73-7.15,4.36-11.5-1.09-3.61-4.5-6.91-8.42-7.13-.44-.03-1.31.16-.97.75h0Z\"><\/path>\n    <\/g>\n  <\/g>\n<\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">Who is truly important to me in my life, and why?<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"gb-text-290be6c3\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Layer_2\" data-name=\"Layer 2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 29.74 46.75\">\n  <g id=\"Ebene_1\" data-name=\"Ebene 1\">\n    <g>\n      <path 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What takes energy away from me?<\/span><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"gb-text-629f0724\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Layer_2\" data-name=\"Layer 2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 29.74 46.75\">\n  <g id=\"Ebene_1\" data-name=\"Ebene 1\">\n    <g>\n      <path d=\"M29.15,6.42C24.76,1.65,18.58-1.7,11.15.92,4.01,3.8.27,8.94,2.12,16.33c-5.01,6.76-.67,15.95,8.05,16.32.83,0,1.62-.35,1.16-1.14,0,0-.3-.46-.34-.51-3.01-4.06-6.86-11.73-7.43-14.31.04-.05-.19.25-.19.25,5.28-7.11,14.54-9.18,22.98-9.29,0,0,1.89.06,1.89.06.75.19,1.47-.61.9-1.28ZM5.98,24.62c1.54,2.7,2.99,4.49,4.76,6.6.2.32.57.66.43.92-.18.27-.49.32-1.04.32-3.49-.25-6.03-3.33-7.58-6.15-1.39-2.63-1.27-5.36-.09-8.04.4-.84.14-.61.15-.62,1.08,2.69,1.93,4.45,3.37,6.97ZM28.26,7.48c-9.66-1.53-19-.4-25.18,7.7C1.31,8.67,4.93,3.8,11.53,1.97c6.05-1.81,13.08.04,17.5,4.56.43.53-.14,1.14-.76.96Z\"><\/path>\n      <path d=\"M18.61,14.94c-.56-1.45,2.1-.97,2.83-.77,3.42.9,6.31,3.42,7.65,6.75,1.46,3.4.3,7.46-1.98,10.21-3.58,4.73-9.39,7.22-15.13,7.95-3.42.5-6.89.47-10.33.27-.63-.1-.81.33-.37.67,3.52,3.3,8.33,5.58,13.08,5.25.94-.03,2.27-.34,3.19-.58,0,0,1.52-.58,1.52-.58,14.52-6,5.45-20.05-.45-29.16h0ZM18.75,14.86c4.54,7.34,13.45,16.23,8.08,25.34-4.21,5.92-12.81,8.26-19.37,5.19-2.66-1.21-5.27-3-7.08-5.28-.43-.94.53-1.7,1.33-1.47,1.14.13,2.27.22,3.41.26,6.7.38,13.84-1.34,18.68-6.18,3.04-2.9,5.73-7.15,4.36-11.5-1.09-3.61-4.5-6.91-8.42-7.13-.44-.03-1.31.16-.97.75h0Z\"><\/path>\n    <\/g>\n  <\/g>\n<\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">What specific changes will I make to my daily routine over the next 21 days?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"gb-text\"><strong>Question 1: What do I really want in my life?<\/strong>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">The key word in this question is \u201ereally\u201c. Not: What should I want? Not: What is expected of me? But: What do I want?\u00a0<em>I<\/em>? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">What sort of life did you always dream of as a child? What did you want to experience? What did you want to become?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">Many people haven\u2019t asked themselves this question for years \u2013 either because everyday life leaves no room for it, or because the answer might involve a major change and, with it, uncertainty. But as long as you don\u2019t answer it, you risk failing to make decisions that come from the heart and living a life that doesn\u2019t truly reflect who you are and your deepest aspirations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text-ba4d986a\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Ebene_2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 124.23 123.07\"><g id=\"Ebene_1-2\"><path d=\"m103.04,22.42l7.17-7.03c3.62-3.62,3.76-7.52.57-10.79l-2.41-2.41c-3.19-3.19-7.1-2.84-10.72.64l-7.17,7.1,12.56,12.49ZM19.36,105.88L96.79,28.53l-12.42-12.49L6.87,93.46.13,109.22c-.64,1.7,1.14,3.69,2.84,2.98l16.39-6.32Z\"><\/path><path d=\"m36.28,123.07c-14.59,0-24.36-5.22-34.51-10.63-.37-.2-.5-.65-.31-1.02.19-.37.65-.5,1.01-.31,15,8.01,29.16,15.57,59.87,5.87,35.52-11.22,37.82-11.22,61.45-.15.38.18.54.62.36,1s-.62.54-1,.36c-22.2-10.41-24.02-11.26-60.36.22-10.52,3.32-19.14,4.66-26.52,4.66Z\"><\/path><\/g><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">Set aside 20 minutes of undisturbed time and write freely about what a harmonious day in your life would look like, without letting your current situation hold you back. Where do you wake up? How do you spend your time? With whom? As you write, focus less on the facts and more on the feeling: where does it warm your heart? What you\u2019re writing \u2013 what feels light? Where do the thoughts just bubble up? There lies a trail to your true self.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text-12d685d8\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Ebene_2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 124.23 123.07\"><g id=\"Ebene_1-2\"><path d=\"m103.04,22.42l7.17-7.03c3.62-3.62,3.76-7.52.57-10.79l-2.41-2.41c-3.19-3.19-7.1-2.84-10.72.64l-7.17,7.1,12.56,12.49ZM19.36,105.88L96.79,28.53l-12.42-12.49L6.87,93.46.13,109.22c-.64,1.7,1.14,3.69,2.84,2.98l16.39-6.32Z\"><\/path><path d=\"m36.28,123.07c-14.59,0-24.36-5.22-34.51-10.63-.37-.2-.5-.65-.31-1.02.19-.37.65-.5,1.01-.31,15,8.01,29.16,15.57,59.87,5.87,35.52-11.22,37.82-11.22,61.45-.15.38.18.54.62.36,1s-.62.54-1,.36c-22.2-10.41-24.02-11.26-60.36.22-10.52,3.32-19.14,4.66-26.52,4.66Z\"><\/path><\/g><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">If you tend to work in a more creative way, you could also make a collage. If you\u2019re more of a mind-map sort of person, then use that. To help your thoughts flow, use whichever method works best for you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-element-53f59d13\">\n<h4 class=\"gb-text\">Example: What do I really want out of life?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">Max loves taking photographs. As a child, he wanted to be a football star. He also loves walking through the woods with his dog for hours on end \u2013 with no particular destination in mind and losing all sense of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">He likes having lots of people around him and loves whizzing down the mountains on his mountain bike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">His job as a buyer no longer fulfils him. The only thing that fascinates him is negotiating. And he\u2019s really good at it. He manages to secure excellent terms, yet everyone leaves the negotiating table feeling as though they\u2019ve won.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Question 2: <strong>Who is truly important to me in my life, and why?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">This question helps you to take a closer look at your relationships. Above all, your relationship with yourself. In what ways do your relationships with other people feel easy and carefree? In what ways do they restrict you? Who do you spend time with simply because a voice inside you tells you that you have to? Where on the list does your name appear?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text-9e4c4bdc\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Ebene_2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 124.23 123.07\"><g id=\"Ebene_1-2\"><path d=\"m103.04,22.42l7.17-7.03c3.62-3.62,3.76-7.52.57-10.79l-2.41-2.41c-3.19-3.19-7.1-2.84-10.72.64l-7.17,7.1,12.56,12.49ZM19.36,105.88L96.79,28.53l-12.42-12.49L6.87,93.46.13,109.22c-.64,1.7,1.14,3.69,2.84,2.98l16.39-6.32Z\"><\/path><path d=\"m36.28,123.07c-14.59,0-24.36-5.22-34.51-10.63-.37-.2-.5-.65-.31-1.02.19-.37.65-.5,1.01-.31,15,8.01,29.16,15.57,59.87,5.87,35.52-11.22,37.82-11.22,61.45-.15.38.18.54.62.36,1s-.62.54-1,.36c-22.2-10.41-24.02-11.26-60.36.22-10.52,3.32-19.14,4.66-26.52,4.66Z\"><\/path><\/g><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">Identify the people who are truly close to your heart and ask yourself why that is. What do they give you? What qualities do they bring to your life?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text-2f20cab6\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Ebene_2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 124.23 123.07\"><g id=\"Ebene_1-2\"><path d=\"m103.04,22.42l7.17-7.03c3.62-3.62,3.76-7.52.57-10.79l-2.41-2.41c-3.19-3.19-7.1-2.84-10.72.64l-7.17,7.1,12.56,12.49ZM19.36,105.88L96.79,28.53l-12.42-12.49L6.87,93.46.13,109.22c-.64,1.7,1.14,3.69,2.84,2.98l16.39-6.32Z\"><\/path><path d=\"m36.28,123.07c-14.59,0-24.36-5.22-34.51-10.63-.37-.2-.5-.65-.31-1.02.19-.37.65-.5,1.01-.31,15,8.01,29.16,15.57,59.87,5.87,35.52-11.22,37.82-11.22,61.45-.15.38.18.54.62.36,1s-.62.54-1,.36c-22.2-10.41-24.02-11.26-60.36.22-10.52,3.32-19.14,4.66-26.52,4.66Z\"><\/path><\/g><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">Then ask yourself: \u201eWhat if I already possessed all these qualities within myself and simply had to bring them to the surface \u2013 who would be left?\u201c <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text-cc2bf3fd\"><span class=\"gb-shape\"><svg id=\"Ebene_2\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewbox=\"0 0 124.23 123.07\"><g id=\"Ebene_1-2\"><path d=\"m103.04,22.42l7.17-7.03c3.62-3.62,3.76-7.52.57-10.79l-2.41-2.41c-3.19-3.19-7.1-2.84-10.72.64l-7.17,7.1,12.56,12.49ZM19.36,105.88L96.79,28.53l-12.42-12.49L6.87,93.46.13,109.22c-.64,1.7,1.14,3.69,2.84,2.98l16.39-6.32Z\"><\/path><path d=\"m36.28,123.07c-14.59,0-24.36-5.22-34.51-10.63-.37-.2-.5-.65-.31-1.02.19-.37.65-.5,1.01-.31,15,8.01,29.16,15.57,59.87,5.87,35.52-11.22,37.82-11.22,61.45-.15.38.18.54.62.36,1s-.62.54-1,.36c-22.2-10.41-24.02-11.26-60.36.22-10.52,3.32-19.14,4.66-26.52,4.66Z\"><\/path><\/g><\/svg><\/span><span class=\"gb-text\">Once you\u2019ve identified these people, take an honest look at the past month and ask yourself: how much time and energy did I actually devote to them? The difference between the two lists will show you very clearly where your life has become unbalanced and who you should make more time for in future.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-element-fa4f4835\">\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Example: Who is truly important to me in my life, and why?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">To begin with, Max jotted down a whole lot of names.  He has a large circle of friends. But when asked \u201ewhy\u201c, all he can come up with is \u201ebecause it\u2019s always been that way\u201c. Max has never really thought about why he spends time with these people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">But when he thinks about it more carefully now, he realises that he\u2019s never really fully present at these meetings. He\u2019s just there \u2013 physically, that is. Mentally, he\u2019s often a world away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><\/ul>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Question 3: What gives me energy?<strong>? What drains my energy?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">This question will help you to shift your priorities and, in the long run, let go of everything that drains your energy. After all, things that drain your energy do not come from your heart and are not in keeping with your very essence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">Your body has already recognised this and is diverting energy away from these things to signal to you that a change is needed. Listen to your body and think about what decisions you can make right now to free up more time and space for the things that give you energy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">Energy drainers aren\u2019t always the obvious things. 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Each evening, make a note in two columns: What gave me energy today? What drained my energy? Make sure to include food in your observations. After seven days, you\u2019ll start to see patterns \u2013 and these patterns provide a concrete starting point for change. The way out of a rut begins by reducing or letting go of a single energy drain altogether.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"gb-text\">Question 4: <strong>What specific changes will I make to my daily routine over the next 21 days?<\/strong>?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\">The first three questions offer valuable insights into where you can change your behaviour in order to get closer to yourself and your true self. However, awareness alone is not enough to bring about change. You need to change the way you act.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"gb-text\"><strong>And here\u2019s my clear recommendation for you:\u00a0<\/strong>Pick one thing and stick to it consistently for 21 days. 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